{"id":906,"date":"2014-12-31T06:00:04","date_gmt":"2014-12-31T11:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beydeckard.com\/blog\/?p=906"},"modified":"2015-01-02T07:13:14","modified_gmt":"2015-01-02T12:13:14","slug":"interview-with-joseph-lance-tonlet-author-of-the-bestseller-grifs-toy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/interview-with-joseph-lance-tonlet-author-of-the-bestseller-grifs-toy\/","title":{"rendered":"Interview with Joseph Lance Tonlet, author of the bestseller Grif&#8217;s Toy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Welcome back to my blog, Joseph!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Thanks so much for having me back, Bey\u2014it's such an honor!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>So... You've been published for over a month now. How does that feel?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wow. I'm not sure I can adequately convey the almost overwhelming emotions sharing <em>Grif's Toy<\/em> with the world invoked. What started as a dream, almost two years ago now, has finally become a reality. It's been truly amazing.<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Grif's Toy<\/em> is doing rather well, I'd say. It ranks as an Amazon bestseller in a few categories and I saw that it was in the top ten for Gay Erotica. That fucking rocks, doesn't it? Were you expecting this sort of reception at all?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>*blush* Thanks!<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, it's been fortunate enough to spend a few weeks on the bestsellers list in a few categories. I honestly didn't anticipate the reaction it\u2019s received... No way I really could have. The entire experience has been nothing short of amazing! <em>Grif's Toy<\/em> is a very personal story and having readers leave such incredible reviews\u2014not to mention the heartfelt messages and emails folks have sent\u2014yeah, it's not something I could have ever anticipated.<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now that you're a self-published author, do you have any advice for people looking to do the same? What have been some of the challenges you've met? What has worked for you? What would you do differently if you could turn back the clock?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I've talked a bit about this before, but self-publishing - as you know - is an incredible amount of work. Every single step in the process, from writing the story to readers finally being able to pick it up from their favorite marketplace, was a new one. I literally went from knowing absolutely nothing about publishing to offering both eBooks and traditional paperbacks of <em>Grif's Toy<\/em>. To be honest, had I known exactly how much work was involved, I may not have had the courage to actually do it. But, with each step I gained invaluable knowledge that will now allow me to move forward with publishing additional works much more quickly. And, let me just say, most important in the process has been my friends. They\u2019ve so unselfishly offered not only their valuable time, but also their unwavering support. Without question, I could NOT have done it without them!<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>What are you working on now? Can you tell us a little about them?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d be happy to. I have three projects in the works\u2014all at different stages.<\/p>\n<p>The first is <em>Brothers LaFon<\/em>. It's completed and waiting in the wings. I've scheduled a release date of <strong>March 1st<\/strong>. It's a VERY dark novelette (just over sixteen thousand words) and deals with the systematic torture and sexual abuse of one brother by another. I'm an erotic writer, so this torture and abuse are done, without question, to titillate and arouse readers. Also, I'd like to take a quick moment to make it clear that this story is in no way connected to the <em>Tease and Denial Series (Grif's Toy)<\/em>. Potential readers should heed and take very seriously all warnings and tags that accompany the blurb.<\/p>\n<p>Second is <em>Wes' Denial<\/em>. It\u2019s the sequel to <em>Grif's Toy<\/em>, and I have a target for a summer release. The story's format is very similar to <em>Grif's Toy\u2014<\/em>meaning it covers several different timeframes and is non-linear. It not only delves into Wes' past, but it is also a continuation of <em>Grif's Toy<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Third is a joint project with an amazing author that I\u2019m completely thrilled about. But, I\u2019ll save the details of that for another time. *wink*<\/p>\n<p><strong>*winks back*\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your work is different. It's downright challenging for some to read. Will that affect what you choose to write in the future?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It's funny you should ask that. A friend and I were just talking about this very thing. However, it was in regard to the upcoming <em>Brother's LaFon<\/em>; it is even darker\u2014substantially so\u2014than <em>Grif's Toy<\/em>. My friend asked if I was worried about how it will be received. Intellectually, I'd be thrilled if it\u2019s well received. However, when I'm actually writing, that's not something I can allow myself to contemplate. If I worrying too much\u2014about anything\u2014it really stifles my creativity. In the end, I can only write what I write\u2014and then hope readers enjoy and connect with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>When publishing series, there is a pressure to get the next one out quick as a wink. Are you feeling it (I know I am!)? Does it affect what you focus on?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I published <em>Grif's Toy<\/em> with absolutely no expectations at all. Zero. In fact, I'll share something with you: a friend and I had a bet that it wouldn't sell twenty-five copies in the first month. I was betting against myself, by the way. That the pre-orders alone far surpassed that number astonished me. And what it's gone on to do since\u2014there are times when I find it completely incomprehensible. I'm SO humbled and grateful.<\/p>\n<p>But back to your question, yeah, there is a bit of pressure now. People connected with Grif in a way I never thought possible. Therefore, I really want <em>Wes' Denial<\/em> to be special, to be something Grif's fans will enjoy.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>I don't know if you've already answered this somewhere before, but let's say someone wants to turn <em>Grif's Toy<\/em> into a movie. Who would play Grif and Wes? What about the other characters?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hmm, I'm assuming you mean a mainstream, theatrical movie. But, I'm gonna go with the more adult type of flick\u2014because I'm naughty that way\u2014and say Tayte Hanson would make the perfect Grif, and Rogan Richards would be my choice for Wes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"907\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/interview-with-joseph-lance-tonlet-author-of-the-bestseller-grifs-toy\/tayte-rogan\/#main\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?fit=800%2C488&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"800,488\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;Pattanasak Rattanasiwamok&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"tayte-rogan\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?fit=800%2C488&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-907\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?resize=800%2C488\" alt=\"tayte-rogan\" width=\"800\" height=\"488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?resize=300%2C183&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/beydeckard.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/tayte-rogan.jpg?resize=676%2C412&amp;ssl=1 676w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And finally: Do you plan on staying self-published?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I thoroughly enjoy being self-published for several reasons. One, I'm pretty much a control freak and being able to do things exactly the way I want to is very satisfying. Two, I don't do well, creatively, with deadlines. And three, I'm probably the world's worst procrastinator. So yeah, being self-published seems like a real good fit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It does indeed. :) Thanks\u00a0again for stopping by, Joseph, and good luck with your next works! I know I'm looking\u00a0forward to them.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Want to know more about <em>Grif's Toy?<\/em>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.josephlancetonlet.com\/Grifs_Toy.html\" target=\"_blank\">Visit Joseph's site<\/a> for buy links, reviews, and sample downloads<\/strong>. <strong>You can also check out my review <a title=\"Review of Grif\u2019s Toy by Joseph Lance Tonlet\" href=\"http:\/\/www.beydeckard.com\/blog\/review-of-grifs-toy-by-joseph-lance-tonlet\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/fbsvZ9tu0is?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome back to my blog, Joseph! Thanks so much for having me back, Bey\u2014it&#8217;s such an honor! &nbsp; So&#8230; You&#8217;ve been published for over a month now. How does that feel? Wow. I&#8217;m not sure I can adequately convey the almost overwhelming emotions sharing Grif&#8217;s Toy with the world invoked. What started as a dream, almost two years ago now, has finally become a reality. It&#8217;s been truly amazing. \u00a0 Grif&#8217;s Toy is doing rather well, I&#8217;d say. 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